Childhood Summers

Photo by Bill Jobe, Killbear Provincial Park

Summer as a kid for me: it was home-made popsicles made from jugs of Kool-Aid, games of Kick-the-Can with the neighbourhood kids, and bouquets of wildflowers picked from the meadows behind our farmhouse.

It was rolling down a grassy hill like a cast-off log, snapping fresh green and wax beans with mom on the back porch, and running with my dog through fields of long grass.

I remember sleeping on a groundsheet overnight, cuddled up in a warm sleeping bag, lost in the canopy of stars above me.

Oh, that noisy cricket in my bedroom that I could never find.

Fresh-picked corn-on-the-cob drenched in butter was a favourite (still is), as was wading in the creek, toes squishing through gooey, thick, black mud. It was so much fun scooping up tadpoles out of the back swamp and building tree forts with bits of deadfall and scrap lumber.

It was running my bicycle up and down the long gravel laneway leading to our country house. I used to sit for hours gathering the most colourful stones; sparkling quartz, red granite, and  fossilized limestone. I used to put them into old pickle jars full of water to bring out their true colours and beauty and put them on my dresser so I could enjoy them longer.

It was whittling away the end of my wooden stick to a fine sharp point with a penknife so that I could slide my slippery hot dog on to cook over a burning campfire, without splitting the skin and it falling off into the hot coals. There was a knack to that!

When I was ten years old, I remember building a pair of stilts out of extra lumber from the garage and teaching myself how to walk on them. I walked all the way from my house to Tim Horton’s Donut shop, two full blocks away and back, on those homemade wooden stilts.

It was afternoons at the park with my brother and sister, running from swings, to the merry-go-round, to rocking horses, to teeter-totters and back again. I learned to pump my legs back and forth and throw my body weight forward and back to send my swing soaring into the sky to greet the clouds, then falling into a downward arc back to the earth, hair tossing and flowing, smiles and giggles glowing. The teeter-totter was tricky. You had to find the right balance with your partner or you might find yourself stuck at the top, them chortling with glee as they looked up at you from their grounded perch.

It was sandy beaches and shovels and buckets of endless construction. You had to get enough water in the sand so that it would stick well and keep its shape but not too much or it slid out of your bucket in a slippery cascade. It was lapping ripples on your toes or wading waves that knocked you over with their rolling, foaming power. It was swimming underwater and opening your eyes to see sunbeams streaming through the blurred world of water and under you, rippled mini-sandbars formed by the endless swells. Here you weighed nothing and could kick and swim freely; here, gravity was powerless. How long you could hold your breath became a challenge so you could stay in that underwater world as long as possible.

It was camping holidays in the old tent trailer, the fresh damp smell of aged canvas and the sound of falling pine needles leaving their shadowed silhouettes on the roof. It was being first up and opening the trailer door and catching the early glow of twilight before night finally gives up its ghost and the morning sun claims the day. For a moment, that magical moment, the world is silent, holding its breath before it all begins.

It was rubber balls, and skipping ropes, and baseballs and bats. My favourite game involved an Indian rubber ball in an old stocking, and I chanted as I bounced that ball off the outside brick wall of my family home: “Hello, hello, hello, sir. Are you coming out, sir? Yes, sir. No, sir. Why, sir? Because I have a cold, sir. Where’d you catch the cold, sir? At the North Pole, sir. What you doing there, sir? Catching polar bears, sir. How many did you catch, sir? One, sir. Two, sir. Three, sir. Four, sir. Five, sir. Six, sir. Seven, sir. Eight, sir. Nine, sir. Ten, sir. That’s enough for me, sir.”

It was buzzing bees and a hornet’s nest high in the tree. It was sprouting mushrooms in the forest, smelling earthy and moist. It was slices of watermelon, juices dripping down my chin, seeds spitting out of my mouth.

It was chasing butterflies through fields of yellow buttercups and white feathered Queen Anne’s Lace while leaping grasshoppers bounded out of my way.   

It was rainbow colours arcing across the sky after a cooling rain on a hot, steamy summer day. At night, it was the patter of raindrops on my grandparent’s aluminum siding farmhouse roof, lulling me to sleep.

Most of all, it was lying back on warm rocks, the hot sun melting my body into a pool of calm. That’s still my favourite. When the doctor says, “Go to your happy place,” that’s where I go. Those hot flat rocks at Killbear Park.

Oh, what a delight summer was. And still is.

Summer Day Trip #2 – Mennonite Farms & Charm

One of my goals this summer is to take day trips or mini road trips to explore spots in Ontario that are new to me. There is so much to see in our beautiful province. Mennonite country with its spreading farmlands and unique culture in south-western Ontario was our destination today.

Summer Day Trip #2 – Mennonite Farms & Charm – SW Ontario

After packing a light snack and drinks, Harold and I headed out for Conestoga Lake Conservation Area in southwestern Ontario for a few hours of fishing and swimming. It was a beautiful drive through rural farmland and small villages with names such as Dorking, Hollen, and Salem. This is Mennonite and Old Order Amish country and it’s common to see the occasional horse and buggy driving along the side of the road with a family dressed in traditional clothing; the men and boys in long pants and suspenders, plain shirts, and broad-brimmed hats; the women and girls in long-sleeved, high-necked dresses, and head coverings such as bonnets or caps. Most often they were in dark clothes, but sometimes we were surprised to see bold purples and other bright colours or prints or even lacy head dresses.

We drove through farm after farm of fields of waving wheat, grazing horses, and corn reaching for the sun, dotted by the occasional small village with its local stores and churches.  It must have been wash day as many of the spreading farm houses had long strings of clean laundry hanging out to dry on this windy day. Many of them had their own tidy flower and vegetable gardens, some with a small table or booth at the end of the driveway selling fresh blooms, strawberries, or even pop for the thirsty traveler.

Conestoga Lake Conservation Area has camping, fishing and swimming areas. It was easy on this weekday afternoon to find an empty picnic table under a shady tree on the shoreline where we could easily cast our fishing lines into the water. As usual, we didn’t catch any fish but our lures got a good soaking, and we enjoyed ourselves for several hours watching fisher folk, boaters, wind surfers and others enjoying the lake on this overcast day with its cooling wind.

By late afternoon, we packed up and headed out for supper. Our destination was Anna Mae’s Bakery & Restaurant, a very popular eatery in the village of Millbank, known for its wholesome, made-from-scratch Mennonite fare and delicious home-baked pies. We were surprised at the busy parking lot considering it was a Monday evening but we had no trouble in getting a table in their large restaurant with its side rooms.

The menu is simple and varies day-to-day, with a short list of meat options depending on the day of the week. This Monday, the Hot Meal offered was the choice of Broasted Chicken (my choice), Farmer’s Sausage, or Roast Chicken and Dressing (Harold’s choice), with a side option of fries, mashed potatoes, or potato salad, and an offer of carrots, corn, or coleslaw. I ordered the soup-of-the-day, a creamy Potato & Ham, and fresh strawberry pie with a good dollop of fresh whipped cream. The servings are generous. I brought home enough chicken and mashed potatoes with gravy for another meal. Harold’s regular meal cost him $16.99; my Full Meal Deal with soup and dessert cost me $24.95.

After dinner, we bought some goodies from the gift shop. I came home with a large stick of smoked salami, a fresh-baked Dutch Apple Pie and a pretty birthday gift for my granddaughter.

Returning home, we criss-crossed rural routes with mixed farms and small villages until, once again, we were back in our own region and its more urban setting.

What a wonderful day we had! I am enjoying these short day-trips and the surprises they offer. I look forward to the next one. 

Summer Day Trip #1 – Ayr, Ontario

One of my goals this summer is to take day trips or mini road trips to explore spots in Ontario that are new to me. There is so much to see in our beautiful province. On Canada Day, I started on my quest and decided to visit sites in and near Ayr, Ontario.

Summer Day Trip #1

My friends and I took a picnic lunch to Pinehurst Lake Conservation Area and enjoyed the sun and beach for the afternoon. It was a great place to visit as the parking lot and beach area are very close together, important when you’re hauling folding chairs, beachwear, and picnic baskets and bags. The water was a perfect temperature for swimming and there were lots of trees and picnic tables for shade.

We packed up and toured the pretty little village of Ayr looking for a place to have dinner. It’s changed so much since I lived there fifty years ago but the Green Garden Chinese Restaurant was still there after all these years. The decor and ambience are a little to be desired but the food was hot and tasty, the staff were friendly and accommodating, and the price was excellent.

We left there and drove out to the outskirts of town for the Canada Day Fireworks. My brother was chief pyrotechnologist and put on an amazing show for the community. A great way to celebrate Canada Day!